Jean, Paul and Valérie: Breach of Hierarchy – Questions & Answers
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Case Study : Jean, Paul and Valérie: Breach of Hierarchy – Questions & Answers
This FAQ expands a practical case where Jean bypasses his manager, writes to Paul, and faces Valérie the HR director, illustrating why respecting hierarchy matters according to NegoAndCo.
Who are the actors in this case?
Jean is the employee. His direct manager (N+1) is also named Jean. Paul is the N+2, a director who hired Jean, and Valérie is the HR director. These three actors, plus the employee, frame the entire negotiation dynamic.
What mistake does Jean make?
Frustrated with what he sees as incompetence from his manager, Jean bypasses her and sends a critical email directly to Paul. By doing so, he violates a key rule: always negotiate with your N+1. This misstep undermines his credibility and sets off a chain of negative events.
How does Paul react?
Paul, surprised, immediately calls Jean’s manager to clarify. She downplays the situation and takes control. Trusting her, Paul files the matter away. The result: Paul is not an interlocutor, and Jean loses credibility with him—the opposite of what Jean intended.
What role does Valérie, the HR director, play?
Valérie knows Jean only through his contract and annual evaluations. Before meeting him, she consults the manager, who describes Jean negatively. During the meeting, Valérie delivers a courteous but firm refusal. Thus, every door closes to Jean—directly linked to his breach of hierarchy.
What are the consequences for Jean?
Isolated, Jean tries to negotiate his exit, but the company refuses on principle. Psychologically exhausted, he eventually resigns without favorable terms. The aftermath is harsh: demoralized, he struggles to convince a new employer. He loses everything, when another approach could have allowed him to rebound.
What would have been the right strategy?
Jean should have first presented his project to his direct manager. If she refused, he could have asked permission to raise it with Paul, ideally with her present. By respecting hierarchy while showcasing competence, Jean would have kept credibility. Even if departure was inevitable, the company would likely have negotiated fairly.
What lesson should negotiators take?
Respecting hierarchy is essential, in France and in Anglo‑Saxon cultures alike. The illusion of speaking freely at all levels hides a universal rule: it is about respecting people. Had Jean observed this, he could have turned conflict into opportunity.
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